Guys, I made this one post all in English because my inspiration just flows
like that right now…. So enjoy it :)
Have you ever stumbled when you tried the stuff from this forum or my
ebook? Why is that?
Here, I give you a killer tips that will boost your performance to become a
real man…
This thing happened to me by the way…
When I still learning to be a real man and be good with woman, I also
stumbled a lot and felt everything I do Is useless… even though I get some
results, but it wasn’t the result that is supposed to be or the results that I
wanted…
And then I realize something FUNDAMENTAL and a SHIFT that comes to my
mind… which is, I am still “trying”…
I AM “TRYING” to be a REAL MAN and be good with WOMAN…
When I realize that, I changed the whole course of what I do… which is… I
was no longer “trying”… instead, i BECOME the REAL MAN…
And I got RAPID RESULTS!...
What do you mean xRoN? How can you “BE” without “TRYING TO BE”?

Well, let me explain this step by step… (This WORKS not only for WOMAN,
but every ASPECT of LIFE!)
Newbie always “trying to be” by DOING things that their MENTORS do…
Expert always “BE” by “BEING” and “THINKING” like what their MENTORS
do…
I give you example… Lets say you WANT to be RICH…
What newbie ALWAYS do is they’re LOOKING for what their MENTOR is
DOING, because they’re thinking that IF I DO WHAT THE RICH ARE DOING,
then I shall become RICH!
So they buy an EXPENSIVE LUXURY CAR,
One X-TRA LARGE LIMO for their beloved MAIDEN,
Eat expensive yet small amount of FOOD,
Buy 2 LARGE APARTMENT plus a HONEYMOON SUITE,
Ignore the APARTMENT they bought and stay at EXPENSIVE HOTEL,
Spend tremendous amounts of money for WOMAN,
And BUYING ALL what RICH people BOUGHT!...
They THINK that they will become RICH by following what RICH people
DO!...
And by the time the newbie REALIZE that what the RICH people ACTUALY
doing was INVESTING their money and only SPEND 10% of their money for
LUXURIOUS stuff… ITS ALREADY TO LATE FOR THE NEWBIE… why late?
Because THEY’RE ALREADY BROKE!...
Tragic eh?

Its all because the newbie is TRYING to be RICH.
Now lets look at what the EXPERT do!
What the expert do is BECOME RICH at that time WITHOUT even “TRYING”
to be rich!...
What do you mean again xRoN? Are you out of your mind? How can a
poor person SUDDENLY become RICH?
What I mean is… RICH is IN YOUR MIND! Not HOW MUCH MONEY YOU
HAVE!
So they are RICH because of their MIND is CAPABLE to make MONEY!...
and sooner or later, the money WILL FOLLOW!...
The expert have the MIND and the ATTITUDE of RICH PEOPLE which is
spend only 10% for luxurious stuff, investing their money, do business and
what’s mostly important is, they DON’T CARE or CRY because of FAILURE!
Even though it HURTS LIKE HELL!...
Isn’t it amazing to know that you can BE RICH RIGHT NOW?
Now, what is it got to do with WOMAN?
Well, STOP “TRYING TO BE” GOOD with WOMAN… and JUST BE GOOD
WITH WOMAN NOW!...
Aargh! What do you mean again xRoN? Your words are twisting my
head!...

Hahaha… if you have something you don’t understand, read again this
whole post… cuz when you GET IT, you’ll blast ahead…
Look at some of the things that the newbie “wanna be” good with
woman do:
1. Newbie knows to be good with woman they need to play “hard to get”
so they play it… when the woman “rejects” them or give IOD, they
“pretend” to be “hard to get” for 15 minutes… and after 15 minutes, the
newbie started to be stressed cause they think by “pretending” to play
“hard to get” the girl would like them! But the girl just RAN AWAY!... and
they wonder why but could find the answer…
2. Newbie knows not to call girls to often… means that they MUST not
CARE about woman that much… so they did it! They DON’T call girls that
much IN HOPE that the girls would call him… so the newbie DON’T CALL
girls to much but they EXPECT the girls to call him!... they FORGET the MUST
NOT CARE factor…
And ofcourse when the girls don’t call him back… they get FRUSTRATED
and begin to call the girls RAPIDLY and abandon the RULE of “they MUST
not CARE about woman that much” cause they think the RULE DOESN’T
WORK!
3. Newbie KNOWS about being ALPHA but they don’t GET what alpha is!...
a good example of this are EVERYWHERE!... a PUA wanna be guys always
think that to be a PUA he MUST be ALPHA!... that’s true… but what is
ALPHA? They got it wrong… they think ALPHA is kinda BADBOY RUDE
stuff… so they play it to woman! They become more RUDE and COCKY!
Become more ARROGANT and SELFISH! And those kind of things!

I even remember one day I was chatting in an international PUA chat
room and one of the “elder” told me not to ask questions and told me to
FUCK OFF!...
And when I asked the people there why is he being so RUDE, the people
at the chat room told me that he is ALPHA GUY!... and ALPHA is ALWAYS
do AMOG to everyone… so better not asking anything!
Hmmm… was it alpha?... OF COUSE NOT! What kind of ALPHA IS THAT?... I
was asking questions that should be answered and he told me to FUCK
OFF? Gezzz… that’s not alpha! That’s MACHO! I’ll tell you what alpha is
after this…
4. Newbie knows that ITS OK to loose a GIRL cause he GOT MILLIONS
MORE GIRLS FOR HIM! So he MUST NOT CARE about ONE GIRL! In pua term
we call it one-itis. So they played it! They “said” they don’t care! But they
hide the feelings of needy-ness inside them… they NEED the girl and CANT
let go!... but to make them looks cool and alpha, the lied and tell
everyone THEY DON’T NEED THE GIRL CAUSE THEY’RE NOT NEEDY!...
hmmm… keep that thoughts for long and within 5 years you’ll get stroke!...
Many more examples but lets stick to the topic shall we?... so what is it
that the TRUE REAL MAN does? Hmmm… check this out:
1. The Real Man knows about the “play hard to get” thing and they’re
playing it as TRUE as it is… they ARE hard to get… if the girls “rejects” them,
its ok… Real Man always said “hey, its her lost!”, he doesn’t even CARE
about it!... when newbie “pretend” to be BUSY and tell girls that they are
BUSY, the Real Man is TRULY busy… he find him self some activity that
makes him busy and tell that to the girl! When the girl is NOT passing his

AUDITION, he would just FORGET the girl right away… so HE IS HARD TO
GET!... He truly is…
2. Real Man knows that he is on his own RULES! He’s not afraid to call girls
not that much… when he’s busy, he don’t call… when he wants to, he
calls… its just that easy… if the girl “complain” about his “rare” call, he
would just explain how busy he is… if the girl can’t take it, he release her
1st hand! and don’t CARE after… the girl MUST understand… or else… bye
is his answer!
3. Real Man knows what Alpha is!... its not TO BE MACHO!... Alpha is
LEADERSHIP skills… Self Management Skills… Kindness… Problem Solving…
Mature… Smart… and ofcourse Damn Dangerous Attractive Sexy MAN…
that’s what Alpha is…
Think of Kings and Warriors… Responsible Heroes that Helps people…
Alpha is you got the Power to Help others… not you have power to ABUSE
and MOCK people up!
4. Real Man “really” doesn’t care about LOOSING a girl!... He is NOT
NEEDY AT ALL!... just as simple as TAKE ME or LEAVE ME!... no whining,
crying, hard feeling or cursing! He is in CONTROL of his own choosing! He
KNOWS there are lots of girls out there that WANT him… He WANTS
Woman but not NEEDING them at all… if he got girls, they MUST pass his
AUDITION or JUST BE FRIENDS…
And guess what? HE ALWAYS GET GIRLS CONSISTANTLY!... NO QUESTIONS
ABOUT IT!...
Interesting eh?... think about it!...

So if I met, listen and see someone who is very successful in business,
knowledge, woman or the thing he does, I wont ask him so much about
his “technique”, “system” or “how he do it”… but rather what was he
“thinking” that creates such a beautiful idea that makes him “tall” on his
feet, today!
Think of SYLAR from the movie HEROES… he TOOK the BRAIN of other
people who are special… why is it the brain?
Hmmm… I wonder…
With love not only for Woman, but also for You…

ps: if there’s a kind hearted alpha bro who wants translate this post into
indonesian language, please do and post it again here… I’ll be very
thankful for that :)

Saya banyak mendapat pertanyaan sehubungan dengan pembelajaran menjadi PRIA IDAMAN yang sebetulnya sangat mudah dijawab… tapi entah kenapa banyak yang tidak mengerti satu hal yang “crucial” ini…
Pertanyaannya adalah:
- Kenapa saya sudah melakukan X tapi ga dapet respon bagus ya?
- Kenapa dia BISA CEPAT BERHASIL, saya LAMBAT BERHASIL?
- Kenapa saya menggunakan TEKNIK X dan tidak berhasil sedangkan
yang lain BERHASIL?
- Apa yang salah dari yang saya lakukan? Semuanya sudah sesuai yang
lain lakukan, tapi tetap saya tidak berhasil…
Nah apakah pertanyaan diatas sering anda tanyakan ke diri anda sendiri maupun ke orang lain?
Mengapa seperti ada yang MENGHALANGI kesuksesan anda?
Apa sebetulnya yang MENGHALANGI langkah anda menjadi Pria Idaman setiap Wanita?
Yang menghalangi anda adalah LANGKAH ANDA SENDIRI…
Maksudnya?
Maksudnya adalah, sebelum anda MELANGKAH, lihat dulu dimana LEVEL anda berada...
Jangan pikir jika anda baru masuk TK bisa langsung KULIAH... tentu hal itu mustahil dilakukan. Bukan berarti anda TIDAK MAMPU masuk kuliah, tapi masih ada STEP atau LEVEL yang harus anda SELESAIKAN dulu baru bisa masuk KULIAH... yaitu SD, SMP dan SMU...Begitu juga soal Wanita…Jangan pikir wanita bisa langsung tergila-gila dengan anda kalau “confident” saja belum anda miliki...Jangan berharap bisa LANGSUNG MELANGKAH CEPAT jadi PRIA IDAMAN…Memang ada beberapa yang CEPAT dalam melangkah menjadi PRIA IDAMAN… tapi mereka sudah MELEBIHI LEVEL ANDA sekarang… ya jelas lah mereka cepat…LUCUNYA… sudah tau anda TIDAK BERHASIL masuk KULIAH karena “level” anda masih TK “ngotot” langsung KULIAH... anda malah BERUSAHA “NGOTOT” LEBIH KERAS LAGI UNTUK MASUK KULIAH…Itu sama saja buang-buang waktu… Kenapa tidak luangkan waktu anda untuk menempuh level selanjutnya dulu? yaitu SD, SMP dan SMU dan BARU KULIAH...Itulah STEP yang BENAR...LIHAT DULU dimana LEVEL anda berada sekarang... SELESAIKAN semua yang anda perlu selesaikan di LEVEL anda, baru melangkah ke LEVEL berikutnya dan jangan MELOMPAT dari LEVEL 1 langsung ke LEVEL 10... itu
semua akan sia-sia, buang-buang waktu, energi, daya upaya dan hanya memberikan anda STRESS, DEPRESI dan SAKIT KEPALA yang tidak dapat disembuhkan oleh inza, neozep atau obat sakit kepala lainnya.Beberapa HAL yang menyebabkan anda INGIN melangkahi LEVEL anda
sekarang:
- Anda merasa TERLALU YAKIN dan EGO anda membesar, sehingga anda pikir anda SUDAH minta ampun jagonya dan tidak melihat LEVEL anda sebenarnya...
- Anda merasa SANGAT terpacu melihat TEMAN atau ORANG LAIN yang dengan CEPAT dapat MELEJIT ke LEVEL yang anda INGINKAN...
- Anda tidak tau STEP-STEP yang menunjukan LEVEL yang harus anda tempuh.

Nah oleh karena itu ini yang harus anda lakukan:
1. Jangan menggunakan EGO anda... sadarlah dimana LEVEL anda sekarang...
2. Jangan terhanyut dengan ILUSI sukses yang TEMAN atau ORANG LAIN dapatkan… selalu lihat diri anda sendiri dan menyadari dimana LEVEL anda.
3. Anda harus tau STEP nya... dimana stepnya? Lihat di post saya sebelumnya tentang hal ini... untuk mempermudah pencarian, lihat di halaman depan post pertama… disitu ada INDEX POST yang ada di thread ini…
Be Aware of Your Self,
Always say Love,